Control

This is kinda interesting, logical at the same time. As it was mentioned during the psycho lecture yesterday, that control is just a perception. It is not real. In a sense, a person can feel that he/she is in control, being dominant, but can they control every single thing in this world? All these are just perceived thoughts. HOWEVER, it does make a person feel better [more like a coping mechanism thou]. Example, you think that you're in control of everything, but do you know whats gona happen to you the next day, or even the next moment? See what I mean? :)

Immediately when the lecturer talked about this, something came into my mind. It was one of those days when I was feeling lousy and talking to darling. Then she mentioned that I'm someone who has very good control of my life, as in I know what I want and I stand firm to my decision. Not exactly what she said but u know, the idea is there. Haha. Well, its true to a certain extent thou. If you look back on what I just said. Things didn't turn out exactly the way I wanted right?

Seriously, most times I just enjoy going with the flow, solve each problem as they come by. Its just too tormenting to speculate every single thing in life. It makes you age faster too, ain't it?

And the thing about perceived control. If it is real, then does it mean that you have the power to control someone else's life too? We all know the fact is otherwise. Thats also the reason why we feel so miserable at times, agree ya?

So, next time before you say that you're in control, or someone else is in control, think again ya. :)